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Only you can determine what that dash is. Colleagues blushed, friends gushed and every softball girl, dog-park lady, and oversharing waitress I asked about bedroom domination said they'd consider themselves a feminist, but they also enjoy being "thrown around a little" by their partner. Still, I should have braced myself for the full confession from Alexandra, my real-estate agent and probably the most powerful, self-confident woman I know. Picture successful, convertible-driving, classic-rock hot blonde.
Good for her, I say, trying to play it cool. She knows what she wants and asks for it — which is, I surmise, the ultimate definition of a feminist. Alexandra says her love of power in her professional career translates to a "power fetish" in bed.
Have as much curiosity as possible, and be curious about what you want. Let it go. Um, yes, please. By Bibi Deitz. See All Health Relationships Self.
Actively disregards the emotional, psychological, physical needs of others that do not directly add to power and control of the dominating spouse.
Children that live in this particular traumagenic environment often externalize their adaption strategies into the world at large, which means that if one works with them in a clinical setting or perhaps a school it is likely that the following will be manifested:.
Perhaps they are unaware that this is the pattern they are operating within. Rhoton has been involved with mental health treatment since Rhoton has collaborated with numerous agencies nationally in fine-tuning their understanding of trauma and the impact of developmental trauma on the individual and family. Your email address will not be published. Remember me Login. Lost your password? Who Chooses to Be Dominated in a Relationship? June 28, Show all.
Some of the adaption strategies required historically by children in a household where there was an aggressively dominating individual may include: Actions and activities that are overly nurturing in nature.
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